The Influence of Mummy Bloggers

The concept of “mummy bloggers” have gone way past the traditional “mums who blog about their kids and their lives as mums”. In fact, it really amazes me how much CONTENT (e.g. food and/or nutrition, travel tips, home ideas, education, business opportunities, etc) is out there thanks to these WAHMs. Yes in case you are not familiar with the term, Work At Home Mum aka WAHM is now a real thing. Mothers everywhere who are skilled writers, mostly have Bachelor Degrees and a solid professional background prior to having children, have discovered that their best use of time, and keeping sane while staying at home with the kids, is to start a blog… and then get paid to blog! Hence it almost becomes their part-time job. Or those who start a blog, and then start a small online business.


However, do not underestimate the idea of “just another blog”. Yes, the internet is absolutely saturated, and there are probably more blogs out there than we can ever count. New blogs are born every single day like babies. Those who have persevered and continued to blog consistently for a decent number of years, will eventually gain a solid number of loyal followers across their Social Media platforms, and their website/blog would have organically been search engine optimized, and gain the attention of media companies and product brands who plan to market to people who fit the blog writer’s demographics.

It is amazing to see so many Mummy Bloggers do so well! I have also noticed that successful Mummy Bloggers have these in common:

  • They have been blogging for more than 3 years.
  • They appear in the first three pages of Google for key searches e.g. “mummy blogger <location>”.
  • They have a “Work With Me” section on their blog with access to all their contact info, maybe a few “bragging points” aka stats on their achievements e.g. awards, features in publications, number of followers, professional background, even website stats.
  • They are actively engaging with peers on Social Media, and their followers/peers tend to be influenced by their product recommendations, tips and lifestyle behaviours in general. 
  • Their website/blogs are well structured, and have A LOT of content.


Of course, I have also seen a fair share that are still trying to get that attention… and then some aren’t even trying and gaining a following anyway simply because they have really good/niche content, or an irresistible personality. Then there’s others who just do it for themselves. For their love of writing, and their need of rambling.

As for me, I was once that Mummy Blogger who would be contacted by various brands and marketing companies to write Sponsored Posts, be given freebies in exchange for Product Reviews, etc. I found that I lost all traction as soon as I stopped. My old blog, Kimba’s Kitchen, although the content has been imported to this website, the website traffic that it used to get has pretty much gone with that old domain. I decided to let it go, as I actually don’t plan to focus on making money from my blog anymore. It was never my original intention, as I started that blog to keep a record of all the recipes I really like and enjoy – and having everything online on a blog was the simplest way of doing it.

Today, this blog is all about writing my thoughts and sharing my passions. It is about keeping an online public diary for all to read, but mostly for me. I am a Deactivated Mummy Blogger, still busy talking about herself and clogging up the Internet with my personal stuff, but it makes me happy so deal with it haha!

I am pretty content now that I get to be a WAHM and work with people who do what I used to do. I believe blogging is VERY healthy for mums who find time to do it, because let’s face it, life is busy as it is. However, those who find time to do it would find it extremely fulfilling. It does get a little bit addictive once you learn how to do more and more fancy things to make your blog look pretty though!

So, if you are reading this, and you are a mummy blogger, CLOG AWAY! (The Internet, that is). Ramble away. Write away. Write like no one is reading, and stay true to yourself. Do what makes YOU happy and never let Social Media bring you down. It is competitive out there, so best not to even bother comparing yourself to others. You are doing a great job, mama ❤️.


It’s All About Branding

Branding is far more than having a company website or a logo, branding is essentially how you would like the public (or more specifically, your target audience) to perceive you.

Whether you want to be recognised as that company that sells value for money goods, or high end quality products, or stylish contemporary designs, or a one-stop shop that is always reliable, or super efficient and quick service but at a premium price, etc… you need to identify your goal identity and work all your marketing efforts towards achieving that public perception.

Your internal marketing team (or an external marketing agency) will work with your management team to help identify your company mission and goals; and implement all the steps necessary towards achieving them. It is marketing’s job to manage the perception of your brand and to change the way people think and feel about your company and in turn, change their buying behaviour.

This can be achieved by:

  • Creating an emotional connection with the consumer. What motivates them?
  • Providing justification for paying a premium price for your service/product. What drives them towards their purchase decision?
  • Creating loyalty to your product or brand name or company. What keeps them coming back?
  • Demonstrating the quality and benefits of your service/product and the company behind it. Testimonials, reviews, encouraging customers to review your business online and to spread the word simply by being awesome.

Acquiring loyal customers is what many successful businesses strive for, and that’s what branding is all about.

Customers always comes first. Give them the experience they would WANT to talk about and let everything else fall into place 😊

Consumerism in this Modern Age

Our human brains are wired in such a way that when it comes to things we want vs things we need… there is a part of our brain that sometimes don’t make much sense, and we unfortunately find hard to control.

The thing is however, marketers are aware of that part of our brains… and have used that to their advantage. We are subconsciously drawn to things that require continuity… so buying something that is part of a collection is a YES. Shopping at a particular store that is offering loyalty rewards or promotional freebies (such as the current Coles Mini Collectable craze, which I will write about next) is also a YES. Playing a game that may seem silly and pointless, but with the ability to level up or unlock achievements or gather more resources, or even as simply as “looking pretty” is also a YES. Take Candy Crush Saga for example, some may argue the game can be some sort of “brain exercise” as you practice your problem solving skills. But really, it is all about levelling up and getting the highest score.. and watching the candies explode gives you a weird sense of satisfaction. People get addicted to playing games on their phones and consoles because they like winning, and they like feeling like they achieved something. People like crafting because they like making things and admiring their finished product.. again “pretty things”. People get addicted to smoking or drinking alcohol or sex because those things make them feel good.

People are constantly on their phones because they are unable to detach from the one device that connects them to the world without physically putting in the effort to be everywhere. Why wouldn’t you be addicted to that one device that holds all your friends, your family, your music, your calendar, your photos, your videos, and all the information you would ever need about anything?? Think about it, once upon a time to read something you would need to pick up a book or a newspaper or a magazine. To look at your photos, you will have to look at your photo albums or framed pictures. To talk to your family, you will have to actually go see them or call them. To watch a movie, you have to physically go to a video store and rent a movie.. or go to the cinema. To buy second hand goods, you have to actually go to a garage sale or op shop, or check the Classified section of the paper. Those were multiple channels for multiple purposes that have now been reduced to one single device, where you can do ALL THAT AND MORE, on your phone. Mindblowing. Why wouldn’t we be spending that much time on our phones when EVERYTHING is on our phones. Personal relationships, work, play, shop, learn, entertainment… every aspect of our lives conveniently streamlined into one device.

I do however agree that too much technology could make us lose touch with the world. So I do believe that sometimes, we need to go back to how things were… it may sound unnecessary and somewhat even inefficient, but our lives are not on the screen. Plus, it is good to mix things up. Go out and get some fresh air. Look up and see the world through your own eyes, not through someone else’s camera lens. Our technology devices help enhance our productivity, but they can also help waste a lot of time if we are not being careful. We just need to really be mindful of what we’re doing whenever we get screen time, is this really going to enhance my life or take away the time that could be used better.

Which leads us back to things we want vs things we need.

Why do we constantly seek to upgrade our phones (even when our existing phones are perfectly functional and in good condition), buy a new car, buy new clothes, buy new toys, buy a new house, etc? Consumerism is so powerful especially in this day and age of technology, where buying things have never been easier. Online shopping has indeed revolutionised the way we spend our money, we don’t even have to leave our homes to spend our money. In fact, just going to the other end of the spectrum now, we don’t even have to leave our homes to EARN our money. Pfft. Mind blown again.

The answer is simple. Despite having everything we want and need, we always want MORE. We want better, newer and bigger, not necessarily more in the sense of having multiple of each things… more of an upgrade. Discard the old, bring in the new. People may have learnt to hoard less, so instead of accumulating more things, people have gotten better at culling old and pre-loved things in exchange for newer, shinier things. So where do all the old stuff go?

Most end up in the wasteland (which is a whole other topic and problem entirely for another day) and some may end up in op shops, where people like me like to go to try and find a second hand bargain. Most recently, they end up for sale on Facebook Marketplace, eBay and Gumtree! I don’t like buying expensive things, but I do tend to spend money unnecessarily on things I don’t really need, simply because I think it is a bargain. Not a good habit either, and I am sure I am not alone!

Basically, with all the information so readily available via the digital media these days, and with a captive audience who are constantly on their digital devices, it is no wonder that businesses and marketers today have pretty much shifted all their efforts to reach their target markets online. If you are still doing things the “old skool” way, you are possibly missing out on revenue that could be generated by doing business online. Digital marketing firms can assist you in implementing the right online marketing strategy, increase your awareness through Social Media and online campaigns, and improve your branding by establishing your core messaging to your target markets. Why wouldn’t you get onboard when you see proof of your captive audience presented in statistics reports such as this:


Now if you would please excuse me, I need to make myself a cup of coffee and have lunch outside and enjoy the beautiful sunshine before getting back to the limited screen time I DO get while my kids are at school! #TryingVeryHardToMaintainAGoodBalance

Step 1: Content Marketing

If you’re reading this, you are probably curious as to who I am, what I am doing here, and why is there so much content on different areas of interest on this page?! What is going on here??

Believe me, if I could, I would choose a niche and roll with it. However, my marketing background simply does not allow me to just roll with one element, topic of interest, or component. To me, all the categories listed in my site menu bar above is MY MARKETING MIX. Basically, all of those areas form the core that is me. The brand that is Kimba’s Living consists of that mix of elements.

So here I am, recently launched this website just yesterday with the purpose of merging all the elements that form who I am into one single platform. I am excited!

Why is Step 1 for me Content Marketing?

First of all, let’s take a look at the definition of content marketing:

content marketing
noun: content marketing
  1. a type of marketing that involves the creation and sharing of online material (such as videos, blogs, and social media posts) that does not explicitly promote a brand but is intended to stimulate interest in its products or services.

Stimulate interest. If you are still reading this, does that mean I have stimulated your interest? The answer is in fact, yes. Haha, thank you, keep reading please!

Instead of pitching products or services, I am hoping to provide relevant and useful content to my future readers – whether you are just someone passing by, and reading content that you can relate to, or whether you are a potential collaborator whom I can maybe work with someday on a project or an article, or whether you are a future client whom I can maybe offer marketing consultancy services to in the future.

If you are like me, and looking to generate more leads or build better relationships with your audience through content marketing, here are a few key guidelines to how to do this well and achieve your goals:

  • Establish a Content Marketing Strategy – this includes having a schedule for posting your content on various social media platforms, planning ahead, researching topics that would best relate to your audience, categorising and building a content database.
  • Engage with your audience – find ways to encourage your audience to react to your posts. Competitions, giveaways, polls, forums, videos, little rants that people can relate to and would want to engage with you to discuss!
  • The word “personality” also means get personal. Show your audience your personality, but also get personal with them so they can relate to you more. You are human, not a boring robot. It is okay to post content that is far from perfect, to post content on failed attempts at something, or bloopers. Sometimes if things are always amazing, they kinda lose their significance.
  • Consistent communication and content driven marketing is always rewarded by search engines. The more you post, the more likely more people will find you.
  • Build a community around your brand – the ultimate goal here is to have a sizeable community of content contributors, readers, clients, friends, strangers, regulars, newbies, one-timers, loyal nuts, preachers, evangelizers who will make your work life interesting and different every single day. Yay!

If this article has helped you in any way, please feel free to leave me a comment or send me your feedback to kimbasliving[a] I would LOVE to hear from you!!